Still have a problem.

Hello all.
I'm still having difficulties with this blog. I DO NOT like what is happening with it. I'm going to try to MOVE this to a NEW blog. Which SUCKS because i have to change my address etc. it's total bull, but i cannot even get into the settings to change my polls. the new format that blogger has used on this paticular blog of mine has FAILED. it's NOT user friendly and i'm completely lost, frustrated, and pissed off. I really enjoyed doing this blog, but i cannot see the point of continuing here when i do not have control of my own page. therefore this blog is officially SHUT DOWN. once i have a new page up i'll post the link here- if the damn thing will let me.
if not...oh well

like before, if you have any questions feel free to ask, or find me on my personal blog page:
http://jaesustheblogger.blogspot.com/

or my formspring account:
http://www.formspring.me/MWMJae

or email me at:
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or
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ALSO my puppy blog is at:
http://shootingstarpups.blogspot.com/

If anyone is looking for a puppy they can find info there, i'm a hobby breeder of havashires and yorkeranians. CKC reg mixed breeds. :)

and finally my puppy FB is:
http://www.facebook.com/#!/shootingstarpups

finally....sorry for the WEIRD ass text changes. but as you can see THIS blogger account is all kinds of SCREWED UP!

thanks:
J. Kristen

POLL WINNERS- Cordelia and Adelaide

Baby name poll winners: Cordelia and Adelaide.ADELAIDE
Gender: Feminine

Usage: English, Italian

Pronounced: AD-ə-layd (English)

From the French form of the Germanic name Adalheidis, which was composed of the elements adal "noble" and heid "kind, sort, type". It was borne in the 10th century by Saint Adelaide, the wife of the Holy Roman Emperor Otto the Great. The name became common in Britain in the 19th century due to the popularity of the German-born wife of King William IV, for whom the city of Adelaide in Australia was named in 1836.

Adelaide first appears on the Social Security list in 1880 at the number 186 spot. Adelaide slowly decreased in popularity into the first half of the 20th century. In 1946 Adelaide dropped off the top 1000 list completely, but showed up again the following year in 1947 at the number 987 spot and again in 1948 at the number 949 spot before disappearing from the list again in 1949. From 1949 to 2004 Adelaide remained off the top 1000 list. In 2005 Adelaide reappears at the number 901 spot, and then decreased in popularity again in 2006 at the number 924 spot. The popular 'older name' fad has helped Adelaide out since 2007, jumping to the number 713 spot and in 2008 moving up further to the number 552 spot. Adelaide has rested in at the halfway mark in the latest updates from the SS list at the number 567 spot for 2009.

I myself was hoping for a bigger jump in Adelaide's popularity, but it might pick up again. More and more I see older names being used these days. I think parents are looking for something different, rare, unique..and yet familiar and classic. A good trend if you ask me. Sure Adelaide isn't as popular as the fan favorite Emma, Abigail, or Isabella, but it has the same classic feel and sound. Addie seems to be a favorite nickname among baby name forums I frequent. It's a cute twist on the more popular Abbie/Abby. And that is what parents are looking for, cute, familiar...but different.

I think Adelaide is a wonderful name with great personality, style and femininity with out being cutesy or goofy. The spelling is unique enough to please the trendier set, yet classic enough to make the 'old school name lovers' very happy. I don't see this name becoming overly popular unless, of course, we have some other sort of die hard "twi-ish" book/movie/etc come out in the next 5 years with a female character/lead whose name happens to *be* Adelaide. Cult like movies/books seem to happen each decade, so maybe in 2020 Adelaide will be the next Isabella...who knows.

Adelaide's nickname possibilities do not stop at Addie alone. If Addie is just not your cup of tea, or too close to the more popular Abbie/Abby, other nicknames include:
Dell
Dela/Della
Lainey
Elle
Ellie
Ella
Adele/Adelle
and even Ida

First/Middles for the name Adelaide for me will be an absolute joy to come up with. Since I find the name Adelaide so fun, refreshing, and adorable I have tons of ideas jumping through my head. Paired w/a modern name, a classic one, a romantic one....they all sound fairly great. I think a 2 syllable middle sounds best, but honestly it's the flow of the total package that makes the name, whether it's 1 syllable or 6, 7, 8..etc.

First/Middle name suggestions for Adelaide might be:

Adelaide Constance
Adelaide Joy
Adelaide Elise
Adelaide Claire
Adelaide Rosalie
Adelaide Fleur
Adelaide Catherine
Adelaide Celeste
Adelaide Liliana

Lucille Adelaide
Carmen Adelaide
Delphine Adelaide
Beatrice Adelaide
Bethany Adelaide
Gillian Adelaide
Romona Adelaide
Gwendolen Adelaide
Willow Adelaide

Alternatives for the name Adelaide might be something like:
Adele/Adelle
Adeline
Adalina
Adelphine
Adrienne
Adrianna
Audrey
Auden

Of the alternatives listed I really love Adele, Adeline, Adrienne, and Auden. All are equally 'rare' names and would be darling. The more extreme rare: Adelphine has it's own charm as well. For public opinion on the name Adelaide please visit the question I've asked about it on Y!A


Overall I find the name Adelaide a very sweet, classic, romantic, darling name. It's rarity is half it's charm. I think many first/middle combos would work here, esp. if you're trying to come up with an elegant feminine name for your little one.
CORDELIA
Gender: Feminine
Usage: English
Pronounced: kawr-DEL-ee-ə, kawr-DEL-yə [key]
From Cordeilla, possibly a Celtic name of unknown meaning. According to Geoffrey of Monmouth, Cordeilla was the youngest of the three daughters of King Lear and the only one to remain loyal to her father. When adapting the character for his play 'King Lear' (1606), Shakespeare altered the spelling to Cordelia.

The name Cordelia first appears on the Social Security List at the number 204 spot for 1880. Cordelia slowly lost popularity throughout the 1880's and 1890's. Peeking at the number 368 spot in 1899. During the 1900s Cordelia continued to lose popularity and by 1920 it was at the number 661 spot. Cordelia continued to on the low end of the top 1000, and even fell off the list in 1947 and 1949. The last time that Cordelia appeared on the top 1000 list was in 1950 at the number 987 spot. After 1950 Cordelia fell off the top 1000 list and has yet to return.

As far as Shakespearean inspired spellings goes Cordelia is one of my favorites. The sound of this name is very feminine to me and well suited for a child and adult. I see this name as elegant and refined. It has a very timeless classic feel to it that I truly love. One cannot deny that Shakespeare had a good eye for lovely feminine names. Cordelia is a name that I have secretly loved for many years. I say secretly because only until recently did this name start to gain attention among baby namers with a taste for older classic names that started to hit the mainstream name lovers. The femininity of this name I think is what has brought it more to the forefront in the last couple of years.
Of course, one could argue that the successful "Buffy the Vampires Slayer" (created in 1997) & "Angel" (created in 1999) television series' brought more attention to the name Cordelia, due to one of the leading characters on the show, who was nicknamed Cordie.

Cordelia has a "Regency" & "Victorian" feel to it. A time in which Shakespearean plays were very popular entertainment. I can very much see a young woman dressed in a high waisted Regency gown dancing a longways Country Dance, partners lined up in pairs...dancing and weaving between each other in a formation of parallel lines, and her name Cordelia. Very Jane Austen-esque.
I think Cordelia is a lovely name for a child, and I find that it would age beautifully on a young woman into adulthood.
I also love the nickname possibilities of the name Cordelia. Corey, Cordie, Delia, Della, Rorrie, and Lia (said Leah).

For public opinion on the name Cordelia as a first name and as a middle name see the link to the question I asked about it on Yahoo!Answers-
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhFwFqtXlkn09BKl3Sr2Xtvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100325092052AAUtRmc

First/Middle name suggestions that I find go well with Cordelia:

Cordelia Fleur
Cordelia Meredith
Cordelia Simone
Cordelia Rosalind
Cordelia Juliet
Cordelia Selene
Cordelia Esther

Paige Cordelia
Emily Cordelia
Naomi Cordelia
Madeleine Cordelia
Adeline Cordelia
Emmeline Cordelia
Grace Cordelia

Alternatives for Cordelia would be something like these:
Cora
Coral
Coralie
Coraline
Corentine
Coretta
Corissa
Cosette
Courtney

I really like Coralie, Coretta, and Cosette. They all have that same elegant and regal feel to them. They sound like they very well could be Shakespearean. Paired with the right middle name or used as a middle and paired with an equally feminine first name I think you would have a unique and beautiful name for your daughter.

Overall I think Cordelia could use a boost in it's popularity. It's sweet feminine sound and lovely alternates are really a diamond in the rough type name. I hope that more people start to look towards using old classics and giving them new life, instead of all these hideous made up trendy names. Being unique doesn't have to be ugly.

J. Kristen

Houston we HAVE a problem!

I have been having technically difficulties with my blog. It's taken great time to post ANY blog. For some reason the "publish post" button is not working for me. I have to "Save Now" then click on the EDIT option on my dashboard, then check the box next to the saved blog draft, and THEN click publish blog.
I am also UNABLE to edit ANY of my blogs.

For this reason it is doubtful that I will continue this blog much longer. I might be transferring these blog posts to a new blog, then start w/new posts once I have gathered my blogs from here, and made sure their transference is smooth, posting is working, etc.

The last blog I posted (baby name-Violet) was a draft from 4 months ago (as you can tell by the question on Y!A i asked about it is 4 months old- I asked that question the DAY I did the BN review of Violet). Due to the problems, I left it as a draft and focused on my personal blog, and personal life.

I don't know when I will start moving my blog, since I am still focused on my personal blog and things going on w/my life at the moment. Hopefully I will have things up and running again before the end of the year. Until then, please enjoy my blog as-is and as always, I am always looking for new names to review, so do not hesitate to contact me through comments or email lady_lilly_96@yahoo.com with suggestions, comments, or if you just want to talk baby names. :) thanks. J.Kristen

ps.

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Name of the Day- Violet

Today's baby girl name is Violet.


VIOLET
Gender: Feminine

Usage: English

Pronounced: VIE-lət, VIE-ə-lət

From the English word violet for the purple flower, ultimately derived from Latin viola. It was common in Scotland from the 16th century, and it came into general use as an English given name during the 19th century.

The name Violet first appears on the Social Security List in 1880 at the number 239 spot. Violet Slowly increased in popularity through the last part of the 19th century and into the 20th century. By 1901 Violet was in the top 100 at the number 91 spot. In 1926 Violet was at the number 96 spot and the following year slipped off the top 100 at the number 103 spot. Violet steadily decreased in popularity over the next five decades and in 1972 fell off the list completely, making a quick comeback to the list in 1973 at the number 928 spot and in 1974 at number 944. Violet again fell off the top 100 list in 1975, and didn't make a return until 1981 at number 996 and again in 1982 at number 994, then fell off the list again in 1983. Violet reappears on the list over tens years later at number 904 in 1998, and slowly gained momentum up the list in 2004 at the number 586, and jumped to number 372 the following year in 2005. As of 2010 Violet sits comfortably at the number 123 spot.

I find Violet one of the prettiest flower names for baby girls. It's soft and gentle yet has a great sound and strength to it. I consider Violet to be one of those old classics that are making a comeback lately. I am thrilled to see older names coming back into favor over the last five years or so. I think a great old classic is much more supstantial than some of the new-age sounding made-up or trendy names out there. Violet is a name that a little girl wears well, and one that grows up lovely with a child into adulthood. Unlike some of the more trendy -ee- ending names I have seen popping up everywhere I think Violet can stand the test of time, and will not sound cliche or over used in years to come.

I can picture a little Violet as a dark haired little girl with big wondering eyes, or even on a light haired little girl with freckles. It's a name that will sound professional on a grown woman, but soft and sweet on a little girl. Being one of my favorite flower names, I find it simple and easy to pair with first and middles of all styles. It's a great name that can give flare to a common first or middle name, or downplay a name that might be trendy or over the top unique. It's a name that will bring a smile to people's face upon hearing it 9 times out of 10.

Nicknames for Violet are sparse, but still sweet. They include the typical Vi, and Vivi. Less common nicknames might include: Viola, Vilah, or even Lettie. One of the more strange nicknames I've heard for a girl named Violet was Ollie. I wouldn't recommend it, but if your Violet happens to be a tomboy, it might be right up her alley.

First/Middles for Violet as I said earlier are vast and the styles that Violet will fit are endless. Pairing Violet with any first or middle name seems a breeze for me personally, and I like the variety of styles and choices that this sweet name allows. There is a combo for everyone I think.

First/Middle suggestions for Violet:

Violet Joy

Violet Ann

Violet Danielle

Violet Grace

Violet Matilda

Violet Carys

Violet Ariana

Violet Simone

Violet Brianne/a

Penelope Violet

Emmeline Violet

Rachel Violet

Willow Violet

Olivia Violet

Jocelyn Violet

Natalie Violet

Caroline Violet

Kaylee Violet

Zoe Violet

Tamara Violet

Alternatives for the name Violet might be something like:

Viola

Vera

Vivienne

Verona

Visola

Vlora

Vione

Vienna

Villette

Of the alternatives I've listed I love Viola (I'm biased of course, as this was one of my great-grandmother's middle names), I also like Vera, Verona, Villette, and I am really liking the idea and sound of Visola and Vlora for some odd reason. For public opinion on the name Violet please visit the question I've asked about it on Y!A .

Overall I find the name Violet a great old classic name. One that will age wonderfully well as a girl grows into adulthood. A name that fits many style combos for first/middle names to be paired with. One that will be around for a long time.

J. Kristen

The Unisex Defense

I've heard a lot of arguments lately about unisex naming. But what truly is unisex? The definition of unisex is:

1. Designed for or suitable to both sexes: unisex clothing; unisex hairstyles.
2. Not distinguished or distinguishable on the basis of sex; androgynous in appearance: cultivated a unisex look.

Are names truly unisex then? Can one be? To me most people that argue for unisex name usages have not sited the androgynous qualities of a name, but rather the effeminate qualities of a traditional masculine boys name now used mostly on little baby girls. There is never (that I have seen) the flip side argument for a traditional girls name to be used on a boy instead. The passionate unisex name lover will argue till they are blue in the face that their precious little snowflake should have whatever name she [the mother] deems worthy of her daughter, and that because such-in-such name has been used mostly on little girls lately, it's 'unisex and worthy for their own daughters'.

Look, I get it. Every parent wants to find the perfect name for their child, and each of us have our own little list of favorites and maybe even less common, rare, or random names that we love no matter what anyone else thinks. Obviously this would include some boys names that someone might find appealing for their daughter, instead of their son. Some names we hear mostly on girls, even though they are traditional boys names, so we become accustomed to defining them in a more feminine way rather than masculine.

For instance: The name Ashley. I know it's traditionally masculine, I understand and know the history and etymology of this name. It's still popular for boys in some countries, in fact. Yet the American mentality has deemed this name now unsuitable for boys because it's so widely used on little girls. Even I can understand the association being considered: Feminine. Yet, the fact remains that this name was, and will always be a masculine name, now popular on girls too. Just because a name becomes popular on girls, doesn't mean that is all the sudden changes it's history or etymology or some how devalues it's masculine roots. You cannot erase the past, and the same can be said of baby names. The past (history) of a name will be eternal. No matter the popularity or gender the name is preferred on, it will still have it's historical roots.

There will always be traditionalists when it comes to naming, who resist the boys names on girls trend with everything in their being. Likewise, there will always be those who will be out looking for the newest trend. Using boys names for girls is only ONE of a myriad of trends lately.

So where do I stand on the whole thing?:

I am a traditionalist most of the time, but I have to say the arguments I see justifying the use of traditional boys names on girls leaves me completely unsatisfied. The logic used to make this trend 'legit' is hypocritical at it's best, and utterly ridiculous at it's worst.

Some people I've seen are more reasonable with their opinions and explanations of why they chose to use a boys name for a girl. When someone is just honest about it and states: "Yes, we realize it's a boys name, but I love it, and want to use it on my little princess anyways and I don't care what you think about it either", I think: Okay- I don't agree, BUT THANK YOU for at least being honest. It's JUST your preference, it's not some 'cause' you are trying to shove down people's throats. Good, use it, love it...whatever. At least they said what was true. They know it's a boys name (traditionally)...they just don't care. That's a VALID reason to use a name. Honestly it is. I don't have my head so far up my own ass that I cannot understand that sometimes the love of a name out weighs *anything* that anyone else has to say about it.

What gets my blood boiling about it, are the arguments full of nothing but conjecture. Theses would be the following:

1. "It's used on girls mostly now, so it's not masculine anymore"

- says who? has the name changed it's meaning all the sudden? it's etymology? Has the whole world embraced this thinking or is this a lame attempt on the namers part to justify using the name to themselves? If you truly love it, use it and don't explain it to me or anyone else....what's the point?

2. "It sounds too girly for a boy nowadays"

- when was the memo put out that the second someone found a name 'feminine in sound' it suddenly was deemed "feminine"? and what about any boys with the name that have already been born, and carry the name? are they now effeminate? This argument makes me annoyed more than any other. It's literally bashing ANY parent that chooses this name for their boys and/or insults the boys already named this. the feminine or masculine qualities associated to the SOUND of a name is purely subjective, the history and etymology of a name, is NOT subjective, it's based in origin, usage history, and facts.

3. "Anyone naming their son this nowadays, the son would be teased"

- Why? Just because you deem it unworthy? OR perhaps it's just you grabbing for any validation in your choice of a name. I personally would never want to use a name for my daughter that could possibly be thought of as 'tease worthy" for ANY sex. To use this reasoning as a way to justify your choices for a girl rather than a boy is such a huge insult to any boy with that name. You're saying, your child is more entitled to the name because of her gender. Wake up people, this is called sexism.

4. "It's unisex so I can use it if I want"

- The funny thing about this reason is that most of these people all for unisex names will then turn around and deem said "unisex" name inappropriate for boys, but not for girls. That's not unisex then. That's name hijacking. Turning a traditionally masculine name into a name usable for feminine use while at the same time, making it inappropriate for the opposite sex it originated on, is NOT making the name unisex, it's separating the usage from the original sex and then making it's usage on the traditional sex 'shameful'.

I am so tired of hearing people using these excuses to justify their choice for a name that is traditionally masculine, for feminine use. You never hear people arguing for the use of a traditional feminine name for the use on the opposite sex. It's sexism at it's best.

My conclusions:
If you're all hell bent on naming your little sweetpea princess daughter: Madison Riley Doodlebug McGee....Please don't get your panties in a twist over anyone wanting to use the same names for their boys. If you're going to use the "unisex" defense, then use it properly. To defend the use of a name you deem unisex is to defend ANY usage of the name regardless of gender. If you cannot do that, if you associate a traditionally masculine name with girls only, then DO NOT use this 'unisex' excuse to defend your choices, because you're not truly for 'unisex' names then, you are for the use of boys names on girls. Unisex goes both ways. Period.

-Jae (MW&M)

Rare Baby Girl Name Poll Winner- Adelaide

The winner of the Rare Baby Girl Name Poll is Adelaide.


ADELAIDE
Gender: Feminine

Usage: English, Italian

Pronounced: AD-ə-layd (English)

From the French form of the Germanic name Adalheidis, which was composed of the elements adal "noble" and heid "kind, sort, type". It was borne in the 10th century by Saint Adelaide, the wife of the Holy Roman Emperor Otto the Great. The name became common in Britain in the 19th century due to the popularity of the German-born wife of King William IV, for whom the city of Adelaide in Australia was named in 1836.

Adelaide first appears on the Social Security list in 1880 at the number 186 spot. Adelaide slowly decreased in popularity into the first half of the 20th century. In 1946 Adelaide dropped off the top 1000 list completely, but showed up again the following year in 1947 at the number 987 spot and again in 1948 at the number 949 spot before disappearing from the list again in 1949. From 1949 to 2004 Adelaide remained off the top 1000 list. In 2005 Adelaide reappears at the number 901 spot, and then decreased in popularity again in 2006 at the number 924 spot. The popular 'older name' fad has helped Adelaide out since 2007, jumping to the number 713 spot and in 2008 moving up further to the number 552 spot. Adelaide has rested in at the halfway mark in the latest updates from the SS list at the number 567 spot for 2009.

I myself was hoping for a bigger jump in Adelaide's popularity, but it might pick up again. More and more I see older names being used these days. I think parents are looking for something different, rare, unique..and yet familiar and classic. A good trend if you ask me. Sure Adelaide isn't as popular as the fan favorite Emma, Abigail, or Isabella, but it has the same classic feel and sound. Addie seems to be a favorite nickname among baby name forums I frequent. It's a cute twist on the more popular Abbie/Abby. And that is what parents are looking for, cute, familiar...but different.

I think Adelaide is a wonderful name with great personality, style and femininity with out being cutesy or goofy. The spelling is unique enough to please the trendier set, yet classic enough to make the 'old school name lovers' very happy. I don't see this name becoming overly popular unless, of course, we have some other sort of die hard "twi-ish" book/movie/etc come out in the next 5 years with a female character/lead whose name happens to *be* Adelaide. Cult like movies/books seem to happen each decade, so maybe in 2020 Adelaide will be the next Isabella...who knows.

Adelaide's nickname possibilities do not stop at Addie alone. If Addie is just not your cup of tea, or too close to the more popular Abbie/Abby, other nicknames include:
Dell
Dela/Della
Lainey
Elle
Ellie
Ella
Adele/Adelle
and even Ida

First/Middles for the name Adelaide for me will be an absolute joy to come up with. Since I find the name Adelaide so fun, refreshing, and adorable I have tons of ideas jumping through my head. Paired w/a modern name, a classic one, a romantic one....they all sound fairly great. I think a 2 syllable middle sounds best, but honestly it's the flow of the total package that makes the name, whether it's 1 syllable or 6, 7, 8..etc.

First/Middle name suggestions for Adelaide might be:

Adelaide Constance
Adelaide Joy
Adelaide Elise
Adelaide Claire
Adelaide Rosalie
Adelaide Fleur
Adelaide Catherine
Adelaide Celeste
Adelaide Liliana

Lucille Adelaide
Carmen Adelaide
Delphine Adelaide
Beatrice Adelaide
Bethany Adelaide
Gillian Adelaide
Romona Adelaide
Gwendolen Adelaide
Willow Adelaide

Alternatives for the name Adelaide might be something like:
Adele/Adelle
Adeline
Adalina
Adelphine
Adrienne
Adrianna
Audrey
Auden

Of the alternatives listed I really love Adele, Adeline, Adrienne, and Auden. All are equally 'rare' names and would be darling. The more extreme rare: Adelphine has it's own charm as well. For public opinion on the name Adelaide please visit the question I've asked about it on Y!A

Overall I find the name Adelaide a very sweet, classic, romantic, darling name. It's rarity is half it's charm. I think many first/middle combos would work here, esp. if you're trying to come up with an elegant feminine name for your little one.

J. Kristen

Baby Name- Ruby

Baby Name- Ruby.


RUBY
Gender: Feminine

Usage: English

Pronounced: ROO-bee [key]

Simply means "ruby" from the name of the precious stone (which ultimately derives from Latin ruber "red"), which is the birthstone of July. It came into use as a given name in the 19th century.

On the SS list Ruby first appears in 1880 at the number 149 spot. Ruby made the top 100 list in 1888 at the number 94 spot and made the top 50 in 1901 at the number 49 spot. Ruby's top ranking spot was at number 22 in 1911, then Ruby made a steady decline over the next two decades. In 1946 Ruby fell from the top 100 list at the number 105 spot. Ruby stayed w/in the top 500 names for the next several decades, and has recently had a boost in popularity. In 2009 Ruby sits at the number 108 spot, and I suspect that it will continue to rise in popularity.

Personally I have to be honest. I've had my ups and downs with this name. I used to really not care for Ruby, but have since come to like it quite a bit. I still think it's a 'go to' cutesy name, but it's one of the better ones. I think it will become a bit more popular over the next 2-4 years then fade out in popularity again, but will remain a steady name on the top 1000.

Middle/First name suggestions for Ruby might be:
Ruby Elise
Ruby Catherine
Ruby Charlotte
Ruby Estelle
Ruby Corinne
Ruby Paige

Madeleine Ruby
Evelyn Ruby
Vivienne Ruby
Claire Ruby
Alexandra Ruby
Caitlin Ruby
Sienna Ruby

Alternatives for the name Ruby might be something like:
Rue
Rowena
Rudy
Ruth
Rowanne

Of the alternatives I really love Ruth and Rowanne. Both would be a bit more rare than Ruby, but have the same stylish feel to them. For public opinion on the name Ruby please visit the question I've asked about it on Y!A

Overall I think Ruby is a very nice name, solid, feminine, and will be a popular favorite for many years to come.

J. Kristen